Raise Your Voice: Unveiling Insecurity, Power, and Communication through Interruption.
During a meeting, at a family gathering, or even during a work video call, the habit of speaking loudly and interrupting can be quite common. This behavior not only annoys others but also reveals a lot about how individuals perceive themselves and how they have learned to communicate.
### When Loud Voice is a Shield
Although speaking loudly and interrupting may seem like a display of confidence, it can often be a defense mechanism against the fear of being unnoticed or undervalued, particularly in competitive environments. This habit serves as an armor, attracting attention and projecting an image of firmness that may not align with emotional reality.
### Interrupting as a Form of Control
Interrupting and talking over others can be linked to the belief that the more one talks, the more power they hold. This behavior, often ingrained since childhood, is reinforced in environments where speaking up gains prestige or influence. However, this pattern erodes dialogue and hinders active listening, which are crucial for healthy communication.
### Between Assertiveness and Aggression
While assertiveness involves expressing ideas and emotions clearly and respectfully, speaking loudly and interrupting seeks to dominate the conversation, often disregarding the other person. It’s important to be aware of the impact such behavior has on others to avoid crossing the line into aggression. By practicing active listening, taking pauses before responding, and respecting speaking turns, individuals can foster more fluid and less tense relationships.
